Thrive Like A Parent

Choosing Yourself in a World That Wants You to Conform

EP:134 Hey there, amazing humans! 
In this raw and real podcast episode, I'm diving deep into something that's been brewing in my heart - the battle between supporting everyone else and supporting YOURSELF. I'm sharing my personal journey from being a people-pleaser to becoming the most authentic version of Brooke possible. Trust me, it wasn't easy! I've lived both sides - sacrificing myself for others and then finally choosing ME. And let me tell you, the liberation is REAL.
Putting others first doesn't make you a hero, it makes you exhausted
Your mental health matters MORE than making everyone comfortable
Being yourself isn't selfish - it's NECESSARY
My biggest revelation? When I stopped trying to fit into everyone else's box, I found MY power. After Jonathan's passing, I realized life is too short to live for others.
Reflect on where YOU'RE sacrificing yourself
Start making ONE choice this week that's just for YOU
Follow your intuition, not everyone else's expectations
#ThrivelikeaParent #SelfLove #AuthenticLiving #MentalHealthMatters
Who's ready to choose themselves? Drop a comment and let's chat! 💕
XOXO,Dr. B
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Chaos, Calm, and Choosing You

EP:132 Hey there! Let me get real with you about something I've struggled with my entire life - living in chaos without losing myself. Whether you're a high-performer who loves last-minute adrenaline or a parent feeling constantly overwhelmed, I've been there!I used to think thriving meant constant hustle and pushing myself to the limit. But what I've learned is that true thriving is about balance, self-care, and listening to your body.
Key Takeaways:✨ Recognize your energy patterns✨ Set boundaries✨ Prioritize REST✨ Choose yourself FIRST
My biggest lesson? You are the most important person in your life. When you take care of yourself, EVERYTHING else falls into place.🚀 Challenge for you: This week, do ONE thing just for YOU. Skip a task, take a nap, say NO to something that drains you.
#ThriveNotSurvive #SelfCareSunday #MomLife #EntrepreneurMindset #mentalhealthmatters 
👉 Want to learn more about breaking the burnout cycle? DM me "THRIVE" and let's chat! 💕Who's ready to transform their chaos? Drop a 🙌 in the comments!
Xoxo,Dr. B 💕
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com

From Raging People Pleaser to Authentic Living

EP:132 As a former "raging people pleaser", I know firsthand how exhausting it can be to constantly put others' needs before your own. I used to do everything for everyone, to the point where I was absolutely drowning. I'd say yes to things I had no time or energy for, shy away from difficult conversations, and never accept help - all in the pursuit of being the "perfect" mom, wife, friend, and professional. But I've learned that your purpose in life isn't to serve others - it's to live and enjoy your life fully, on your own terms.
It takes courage to stop being a chameleon and start being your authentic self. I had to shed a lot of old relationships and communities that didn't accept the real me. But surrounding myself with my "people" - those who love and support me unconditionally - has been so freeing. Now I use my values as a compass, being honest about what I want and need, even if it means setting boundaries that ruffle some feathers. I've realized that being honest and assertive isn't the same as being unkind or selfish. It's about having the courage to show up as your true self.
Overcoming people-pleasing isn't easy, but it's so worth it for your mental health and personal fulfillment. Start small, be patient with yourself, and remember - you are worthy, even if it means ruffling a few feathers. 🦋
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
#PeoplePleasingFree #FindYourPurpose #SelfCareIsNotSelfish

When Your Partner Has Nothing Left to Give

As a parent, I know how easy it is to get so caught up in the demands of work, home, and family that you have nothing left to give your partner. I've been there - feeling lonely, resentful, and disconnected from the person I love the most. But I've also learned that it doesn't have to be that way.
It takes effort to keep that love muscle strong, but it's so worth it. Make date nights a non-negotiable, even if it's just a simple activity together. And don't be afraid to plan a kid-free getaway - even 3 days can reignite that spark. Your relationship deserves that investment. You both do. It's not easy, but choosing each other, even when life is crazy, is what will keep your bond alive.
Ready to learn more? Listen to the full episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, where I dive deeper into this topic. Your relationship is worth the investment - let's work on it together!
XOXO,Dr. B
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
#relationshipgoals #datenightideas #marriageadvice #parentlife #selfcare #podcast

When Mess Triggers Your Nervous System

EP:130 As a parent, I know how triggering mess and clutter can be. It's like my brain just snaps! But I've learned some tricks to manage it. First, I made my bedroom a peaceful sanctuary - no TV, just calm vibes. It's my Hail Mary when the rest of the house is a disaster zone. I grew up in a super tidy home, but now I've had to release that perfectionism. My house isn't Pinterest-perfect, but good enough is good enough.
 
I also get the kids involved - one new chore at a time so it doesn't overwhelm them (or me!). It's a work in progress, but creating that calm space and delegating responsibilities has been game-changing. 
 
I used to get so anxious when my parents would visit, worried they'd judge my messy home. But I've learned to give myself grace - clutter doesn't define my worth as a parent.
If mess stresses you out, you're not alone. With a little self-compassion and some simple strategies, you can regain that sense of peace and control. Who's with me on this decluttering journey? 
XOXO,Dr. B
 
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
 
#parentlife #decluttering #selfcare

Navigating Grief as a Family

EP:129 This week, I decided to try something I've always wanted to do - bring my kids on the podcast. My older son Charlie joined me, and I'm so proud of how he opened up and shared his perspective. As a child who lost his dad to suicide, Charlie has a unique understanding of grief and resilience. He talked about the difficulty of seeing other kids with their dads, and how it felt to have male role models like my partner Carter step in to fill that void. It's been a journey for all of us, but I'm in awe of how Charlie has weathered the storm.
 EP:129 He acknowledged the stress and sadness I experienced in that first year, but also recognized how I've been able to be more present for him and his brother as time has passed. Charlie's advice for other families going through loss is to keep believing - that there is always a solution around the corner, and that with trust and love, you can emerge as an even stronger team. I'm so grateful to Charlie for his honesty and vulnerability in sharing his story.
Listening to Charlie's perspective has deepened my own understanding of our family's experience. He's a remarkable young man, wise beyond his years. I hope that by opening up about our journey, we can provide comfort and inspiration to others facing unimaginable challenges. Our family may look different, but the love and support we share is what truly matters. 
 
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
 
#grief #resilience #familylove #mentalhealth

Navigating the Social Norms vs Natural Regulation

EP:128 Our kids' head-banging, rocking, and constant movement aren't just concerning behaviors - they're natural ways they're trying to regulate their nervous systems. As a mom of preemies, I know how much deep pressure and sensory input my babies needed to soothe and settle. 
 
Things like pacifiers and thumb-sucking aren't just social norms, they're our kids' innate ways of calming their developing brains and bodies. Instead of stripping away these natural regulation methods, we need to observe the patterns, support their needs, and create space for their incredible ability to self-regulate. It's a journey, but so worth it for their long-term mental health.
 
Links & Resources: 📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/ 📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram - https://bit.ly/48VZI5e 🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
 #NervousSystemRegulation #ParentingTips #SensoryNeeds #MentalHealth #PreemieParents #SelfRegulation

Reclaiming Your Unfiltered and Authentic Self

EP:127 As I shared, feeling like you're "too much" is a core wound that affects so many of us. It leads us to create a performative reality, dampening our light and abandoning our true selves. Growing up, I learned to function according to societal norms, but I found my truest self could only shine when I was on stage, dancing. That freedom and authenticity was so liberating, yet so rare in my everyday life.
Even in my relationships, I often became a mirror for others' issues, rather than honoring my own worth. It wasn't until I became a solo parent during COVID that I had a breakthrough - I realized I had to be my own mirror, my own support. Understanding our nervous systems is key - it allows us to embrace our unique selves, rather than trying to fit a mold.
The more we live boldly and authentically, the more we'll inspire others. It's not easy to overcome the fear of being "too much," but the rewards are immense. I encourage you to take risks, say the things you're afraid to say, and let your light shine. Your value doesn't decrease based on others' inability to see your worth. Embrace all that you are - it's your greatest gift.
Xoxo,
Dr.B
 
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/ 📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e 🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
 
00:00 Embracing Your True Self10:05 The Journey of Self-Acceptance20:10 Navigating Relationships and Identity27:48 Living Boldly and Authentically
 
#LivingBoldly #OwningYourWorth #SelfAcceptance #AutenticLiving #SelfDiscovery #NervousSystem

Losing Your Temper with Your Kids

EP:126 Hey friends! I just recorded a new episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast all about losing your temper with your kids. As a mom, I know how hard this can be - we all have those moments where we just feel like we're at the end of our rope. But I want you to know that it doesn't make you a bad parent. It just means you need to take care of yourself, whether that's taking a break, practicing self-care, or finding healthy ways to manage your emotions.
 
In this episode, I get real about my own struggles with traditional "play" activities, and how I've learned to connect with my kids in my own unique way. I also share my honest thoughts on some popular parenting experts and methods - not everything works for every family, and that's okay!
The key is being kind to yourself, setting boundaries, and making time for your own mental health. When we do that, we can show up as calmer, more regulated parents. I hope this episode gives you the validation and encouragement you need. You're doing an amazing job, even on the tough days. Sending you all my love!
 
#parenting #selfcare #mentalhealth #emotionalregulation #parentingtips #thrivelikeaparent 
 
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
 
0:00 - Introduction and Context5:00 - Connecting with Children in Unique Ways10:00 - The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries

Sex and Intimacy within a Partnership

EP:125 Hi Friends! I've noticed a pattern with my clients - many struggle with intimacy and sex within their marriages or partnerships. This is a topic that isn't openly discussed, but it's so important. Intimacy should be a deep, mutual connection - not a one-sided experience where one partner's needs are neglected. I've heard too many stories of intimacy feeling like a chore, rather than a pleasurable, regulating experience for both people.
I want to empower you to advocate for your own needs when it comes to intimacy. Your body, your choice. You deserve to feel comfortable, respected, and mutually satisfied. Don't be afraid to have an open conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. Your wellbeing should be the priority, not just meeting your partner's needs. You have the right to prioritize your own pleasure and regulation.
 
Links & Resources:
📘 Check out more episodes of Thrive Like a Parent - https://drbrookeweinstein.com/thrive-podcast/📸 Follow Dr. B on Instagram -   https://bit.ly/48VZI5e  🌐 Visit our website for more resources on self-care and well-being - https://drbrookeweinstein.com
 #intimacy #sexandrelationships #marriageadvice #selfcare #boundaries #couplegoals